Saturday, September 13, 2008

Unready To Be Given Away

The wedding discussion has brainwashed me for sure. Although I’m not the one getting married, exactly the night after the meeting, I slept and dreamt of my own wedding.

However, I didn’t get to see the face of my groom. Only two men I saw - none of them were my groom though. Within, I fought to choose which hand to hold. Still, face glowing, they seemed happy.

But for me, deep inside I realized I wasn’t that happy. For I know I was not ready to be given away...

Perhaps, this was due to me being so attached to him.

Or possibly because I’m just 19 - too young to get married?

10 comments:

Vin Tsen said...

Jie Jie,

Don't forget, you're still waiting for your billionaire hubby.. x)

xL said...

Jas,

19 is still young to think of marriage....

You still have many years to see the world... =D

cc said...

Oh I remember being 19 and dreaming of my prince charming too. Those were the days...sweet. ;)

Pastor Albert said...

My Angel had a special dream one night...
About her knight in shining armour bright.
Then she woke up with a start!
Only to realise that he had stolen her heart.
My Angel smiled and dropped a tear.
Too young, she said, I'm only 19-year.
This knight, her heart will always cherish.
Be he Chinese, French, Indian or Irish.
She trusts that God will take care of him for now.
Until it is time for them to take the vow.
Meanwhile, my Daughter, wait patiently for this wonderful man.
Daddy will pray and help you in whatever ways he can!

Cyren Asteraceya Wong said...

Oh I thought you were REALLY getting married...

My friend got engaged when he was 19...but that's coz it was something like an arranged marriage thing.

But he liked the girl...so it wasn't a big deal. (^.^)

Venessa ♥♥ said...

Yeah you're 19 and you have alot of things ahead of you!!
^^

Kevin said...

Hi Jasmine,

In some cultures, 19 is not too young to get married. It's just nice. The question is whether the person is ready to hold the responsibility of being a husband, wife and parent later.

We may be biologically ready, but mentally, we are not. So, take your time... maybe in a few years you'll meet that special someone - maybe sooner. No one can tell.

Whatever you do, don't force or be forced into marriage - that is a BIG mistake :)

Take care and good luck.

Ahmike said...

Haha i dont mind if i have a great partner to earn money for me, =)Must suit my taste de lo

Chris Thoo said...

ahahah....so young...so so young..

kenwooi said...

You're still young, obviously! =)

Enjoy your life first!

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